Longer nights, shorter sleep

These nights are getting way too long, that I am not able to close my eyes and sleep properly.

Random thoughts and anxiety of future fills in as soon as I try to close my close. It seems like the darkness is being swallowed by the light of anxiety.

May be these shorter sleep cycles are due to the uncertainty of my life or some habit changes in recent times. My eyes swollen on most days. Dark circles have started appearing. Hairloss is more.

I have been recently facing difficulty to fall asleep at night. I do sleep, but for a shorter period of time–fall asleep by 1:30 or 2am and wake up by 7:00am. This accounts for 5 hours of sleep.

I do get sleepy in the afternoon, by 3:30 and the power nap extend till 4:00PM. After which I wake up.

I do feel tired, but by having good food, I am able to drive my body and mind and endorse my energy levels. I keep myself hydrated too. 

I hope it's gets better, in coming days and I get better sleep at night. 

The only thing that drives me is that I am able to have some good food at home.

Crafting concise conversations: the power of short, focused questions

The other day, I was chatting with a colleague about something simple but tricky—should we ask questions as short notes or go into detail?

For me, the answer is always clear: keep it short.

But simple doesn’t always mean easy.

Short questions have a unique power. They grab attention, create clarity, and invite richer, more thoughtful responses. 

When I ask a concise, focused question, I leave space for the other person to think, reflect, and elaborate. 

It shifts the conversation from me explaining everything to them revealing more.

If the question isn’t understood right away, I don’t rush to rephrase it. Instead, I offer a bit of relevant context—still keeping it brief. The goal is to guide, not overwhelm.

This approach works best when it's intentional. Here’s a structure I often follow:

1. Ask a short, crisp question

2. Add minimal, relevant context

3. Mention a related challenge or pain point

4. Let them speak. Step in only if they contradict or derail the topic.

5. Offer your own answer or point of view

6. Include actionable insights or next steps

7. Wrap up with gratitude or a thoughtful follow-up

This method helps keep conversations focused, efficient, and engaging. Each element builds on the last without dragging the dialogue down. 

It’s a rhythm: 

Short questions spark deep thinking.

Short context gives direction.

Short takeaways drive clarity.

Conversations don’t need to be long to be meaningful. They just need to be well-crafted.

Vibe blogging: new media philosophy

It's hard to say, what I am up to these days. I just resumed to my work after my one week of heavy exams.

The week was not just about exams but rather family responsibilities as well. Basically, it was heavy lifting and uncertain life. But I embraced it and lived through it.

Heavy lifting in life is often looked down by many and goes unrecognized by many, even closely associated and the partner. But the core is to embrase it at least to yourself.

To calm myself, I just started to browse some of the blogs I follow and started reading. Most of them have a niche they write in, like space, lifestyle, personal stuff etc. 

But I dont follow a particular niche, at times I write on sudoku, then the next day I write about self-goals, another day about IndieWeb etc. This confuses many onto why they should even read my blog. 

I went to Chat GPT, my new assistant to search out stuff, and asked it, what niche of blogging I am doing.

To my surprise I found that it's called Vibe Blogging.

Here is what ChatGPT had to say:

What is Vibe Blogging?

Vibe blogging is a relaxed, spontaneous way of blogging focused on capturing feelings, thoughts, or moments—without worrying about structure or perfection.

Key Traits:

• Unfiltered expression: Write like you talk. Minimal editing. Raw and real.

• No pressure to be “useful”: It’s more like a public diary than a content strategy.

• Mood-driven: You post when you feel like it, about whatever’s on your mind.

• Any format goes: Two lines or two pages. No rules.

• Connection over content: Readers come for you, not just what you write.

Why it matters:

In a world chasing polish and productivity, vibe blogging is a quiet, authentic rebellion.

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I believe I can conclude that this blog genre is vibe blogging: just jotting down whatever is coming in my mind. 

My vibes are that I like to think, annotate and describe a particular idea or thing in different perspectives it has. It's not just about jotting some random ideas in a random way, rather a structured the write up. This allows me to add more depth to my thought process, and deeper meaning to my writings. 

I have always considered critical thinking as my core skill. I dont overthink and have a divergent process of structuring my thoughts. I conduct thought experiments and formulate hypothesis for different possible scenarios, its outcomes and trade-offs. I get stuck at decision making though, which is a hard part for me. (But thanks to my wife who saves me at these critical points who is good at decision making.) 

I am now learning how to make better and wise decisions. Decision making is an art that can be learned. It always has a risk factor as the outcomes are always futuristic. 

These hypotheses I formulate help me to understand and analyse if my thinking is rightly directed or not. The result of these hypothesis is always a time dependent. My major concern is to reduce its risk.

I train my brain to lift heavy stuff and challenge itself. Mental health is my primary goal. Mental control and brain health is important to me. To be on-the-grounds of a safe mental health, I do blog. This is not a bitching blog, but it's more like a thought experiment or a commonplace digital notebook.

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The next question I pondered upon was whether Vibe Blogging is all about blogging using AI.

The name is very similar to Vibe Coding, where people code using English language to build some digital products or tools. 

Basically, from what I understand I like to describe vibe blogging as a philosophy of blogging which more of a relaxed, raw, emotion-driven, spontaneous way of putting thoughts on a digital paper—no pressure.

GPT (or any AI) can help with vibe blogging (e.g., use it to brainstorm or clean up the writings), but it's not a requirement—it's a tool.

Vibe blogging is all about sitting down and typing whatever’s on my mind, without overthinking grammar, SEO, structure, or even for that matter how well the blog is going to perform.

I may ask GPT to help me fix typos, grammatically accurate, check the syntax and suggest some ideas. Here I am using GPT to support vibe blogging, but the vibe is purely mine.

Vibe blogging comes from the heart 💓, not from the tool you use.

Navigating stress in adulthood

It's exam season, and the stress is real.

My second semester MBA exams have started and are being held continuously over this week. There is nothing more tiring than a weeklong series of exams held in the early morning.

I have to travel about 20+ kilometers to write my exams and then travel back home during rush hour, only to prepare for the exam scheduled for the next day.

Along with the seven subjects of the MBA second semester, I also have a carryover from my first semester, which I missed writing due to a lack of preparation time.

Every day, I feel so dizzy in the exam hall. The three-hour exams are so boring, and I need to keep writing answers in the 44-page answer booklet.

I wake up at 6:00 AM to revise the subject and quickly skim over the key points. At about 8:00 AM, I take a quick shower and eat my breakfast. By the time I finish my breakfast, I tend to start forgetting most of the concepts I learned, and the stress slowly begins to build. By 8:45 AM, I pack my bag to travel to the exam center.

The exam is at 10:00 AM. When the invigilator hands over the question paper, I forget everything.

At this moment, I can closely relate to Mr. Bean when he went to take his exam.

The struggle to attempt exams is real, especially in adulthood, and it can bring a sense of lower confidence and self-doubt.

But I don't give up. My goal is not to be a top scorer but to acquire as much knowledge as possible and pass the exam. 

Some measures I take to control the stress:

1. drink ample amount of water
2. use a clickable pen, this will allow to keep pressing on the back of the pen during a stress condition, which allows to relax due to fiddling [change of focus].
3. pause for a moment when stuck and take a deep breath (in and out).
4. sit near a window or a well-ventilated space comfortably and allow cold air to flow near and around (both while studying as well as, if possible, for the exam).
5. use time wisely.

[These are my personal ways to control stress. I am not sure if it's a scientific method or not, but this has worked out for me]

Happy 2nd Wedding Anniversary to Us!

 

Yesterday, May 21st, marked my second wedding anniversary. I couldn't believe that we have already completed two wonderful years—here's to many more days filled with love!

My wife surprised me with a beautiful custom-made caramel cake.

She went all out to create a delightful design on top featuring Tom and Jerry—I absolutely loved it. Her intention was to capture the strong and vibrant relationship we share.

It was a truly blessed and happy day to cherish. Thank you, Vinu—I love you!

Some stuff on blogging: IndieWeb, POSSE and Blogroll

I have been craving to write about the independent web and how I have started being a part of this culture. This post is gonna be quite a long one, 'cause it's a personal + technical one and an open writing.

The Beginning

I started my journey with the IndieWeb in 2023 when I first created a webpage on GitHub using HTML and CSS. I didn’t use any templates, rather hand coded everything from ground zero — for my love to code in HTML and CSS. 

I’m not a fan of JavaScript or other fancy webstuff, as I don’t feel comfortable with them (not my cup of tea). 

Though I have coded some basic coding in JavaScript and have a good knowledge of data structures, unfortunately, I don’t enjoy the process.

My main motive to maintain a blog is to embrace my love to write but present them in the most suitable way, correlating with the mood I want to set for my writings. On my research and learning about designing and CSS frameworks, I realized that the blog required a minimalist look, which allowed readers to engage with the post directly.

I planned out my layout and designed a static page with posts in simple HTML. I used my ASCII art skills to create landing image on the top. May be more on this story in other blog.

My exposure to IndieWeb

As I started to look into how others create blogs or websites for writing, I came across a group who appreciated a different approach, called IndieWeb. 

IndieWeb is a movement that promoted having an independent web, rather than relying on social media to publish our work—be it writing, photography, poetry, videos, drawings and sketches, etc.

The concept was all about owning the content and not falling for SEO and the algorithms of social media while publishing content. You probably know that I don’t have a niche. I blog random topics from a list of interest areas that I like to read or write about—basically, whatever strikes an interest in me.

I came to the realisation that social media algorithms are controlled by some random dude who cares nothing for the creator. I used to blog on Tumblr and Instagram, and I saw very little engagement due to the algorithm being selective about what it displays. Social media is not social anymore—rather, it’s psycho media, based purely on psychological behavior trends of its users.

You check out some random reel of a cat today, and you’ll see mostly cat reels piled up on your dashboard or homepage the next minute. The app just wants someone to be specific. I created multiple Instagram pages—one for my personal blog, another for my abstract art, one for my typography art, one for my poetry, and one for my write-ups. This became a big nightmare as I had to post regularly on all of them, and it was hard.

I was not able to post what I wanted, nor show my work properly. My posts were not even displayed on the home page/dashboard of my close friends who used to like my feed before.

This made me rethink and shift to the independent web: IndieWeb.

In short, maintaining an IndieWeb helps its users retain full ownership of their content and present it exactly as they want. No algorithm would judge the content or determine its fate; that is left to the humans reading it.

Since I started writing on my blog, I started reading and learning more about such concepts. I got exposed to concepts like POSSE and Blogroll.

What is POSSE? 

POSSE stands for Publish (on your) Own Site, Syndicate Elsewhere.

So basically, POSSE is a principle in which the independent creators on web, first publish their content on their own websites. This content will be later reshared on other social media platforms using a link alone or CTA story followed by the link to their original write up on the website.

I started writing all my write-ups and publish them first on my own site, and then I share it (fully or partially) on other platforms like:

• Twitter

• LinkedIn

• Medium

• Instagram

• Facebook

• Newsletters, etc.

This is called syndication. Syndicating your content helps you maintain ownership, as your site remains the original source. By posting across different social platforms, you increase the chances of visibility and discovery among various audiences.

So now I have a single face on my social media as a "blogger". I publish just a brief on the story and link to the post on my blog. The original post is published on my website (unless I write for someone else).

The core idea of POSSE is:

1. You control your content (since it lives on your site).

2. You reach your audience where they are (by syndicating it).

3. You retain a canonical version of your work on your domain, which helps with longevity, archiving, and SEO.

Blogroll

A blogroll is a list of links to other blogs or websites that a blogger recommends. It's usually found on the side or bottom of a blog. The purpose of a blogroll is to share favorite sites with readers, helping them discover new content that the blogger enjoys or finds useful.

I got a blogroll running through my 😎 Cool Bloggers page.

Today I have also become a part of a very successfully running Blogroll:

Screenshot from the https://blogroll.org/

This way being on a blogroll, can help others interested to know about my blog and may be get converted to regular readers.

Relying on a self-made blog, though the blog is hosted on Blogger and domain registered on Squarespace, brings in a couple of advantages:

• Being part of a worldwide Blog lovers
• Being part of a movement
• Own your writing and content

Joining the IndieWeb has changed my writing journey for the better. It allows me to own my content and share it freely without worrying about social media algorithms. With the POSSE approach, I can publish my work on my own site and still share it on other platforms, helping me connect with more readers.

Being part of a blogroll has also helped me meet other bloggers and grow my audience. This community supports each other and makes sharing our work more enjoyable.

As I continue on this path, I look forward to exploring new ideas and connecting with others. I encourage everyone to consider the IndieWeb, where you can express yourself freely and share your unique voice with the world.

You’ve been wrong about sudoku all along!

Hey buddy, quick question, where do you think Sudoku actually comes from?

Thats an easy question. Japan, right?

I mean, it’s a Japanese puzzle! Who doesn't know that. 

You’d think so! 

Yes OfCourse! What do you mean, that it's not Japanese?

Sudoku is not originally Japanese. Shocking, huh? It's actually a French game.

Are you kidding me? But the word is Japanese! How can it not be from Japan?

I know, it’s confusing. The name “Sudoku” is Japanese, sure, but the puzzle itself has a much older, international history. It actually traces back to 19th-century France.

France?! No way. How did it end up there?

So, there was this French mathematician, Édouard Lucas. He invented something called “Latin Squares”.

What is that?

It's basically grids where each number or symbol appears only once per row and column. That’s basically the DNA of Sudoku.

Huh, Latin Squares... sounds fancy but kinda boring compared to Sudoku.

True, it’s more abstract math stuff. 

So, is that what evolved to Sudoku?

Not exactly. Fast forward to the 1970s, an American architect named Howard Garns took that concept and created the first puzzle that looks exactly like modern Sudoku. He called it “Number Place.”

An architect? Designing puzzles? That’s unexpected!

Right! He wasn’t just sketching buildings instead he was building brain teasers. Then, this puzzle traveled to Japan in the 1980s, where it exploded in popularity. The Japanese publishers gave it the name “Sudoku,” meaning “single number,” and boom! It became a cultural phenomenon.

So, Japan basically gave it a catchy name and made it famous worldwide. That’s some serious rebranding power.

Exactly! It’s a brilliant example of how ideas evolve, and they’re never truly owned by one place. Sudoku’s journey from French math to Japanese bestseller is a global adventure.

That actually makes playing Sudoku feel cooler, like you’re part of a puzzle with a secret international backstory.

Totally! Next time someone brags about Sudoku being Japanese, you can school them with the real story.

Now I want to try “Number Place” puzzles next.

Reference:  Math Games:Sudoku Variations

Jenga of Life

Life often feels like a game of Jenga.

We start with a steady base, which often depends on our upbringing, our early experiences and the people who shape us.

As we grow, we begin stacking over the existing base: new jobs, relationships, lessons learned, goals, failures, wins. 

Each move we make is built on what came before. Just like in Jenga.

We’re always try to balance between and within the existing situations and happening in life: pulling from here, shifting there, trying to keep things upright while still making progress.

Sometimes, a piece falls. 

A plan doesn’t work out. 

We lose something or someone. 

We’re left staring at the mess, wondering what to do next. But just like in the game, we don’t throw the tower away. 

We rebuild. 

We learn. 

We use what’s left to create something new, maybe even stronger than before.

Success doesn’t come from never making mistakes. It comes from having a solid foundation and the ability to adjust when things get shaky. It’s not about perfection. It’s about presence. Being aware. Staying calm. Making thoughtful moves when it matters.

And most of all, remembering it’s just a game. One to be played with curiosity, courage, and a little bit of fun.

Just continue to play, no matter the times you fall. If the base is not strong, build reinforcement and try to support.

Take risk and "build again" if it falls.

Take risk and "build again" if it stands.

Take risk and build again, to be in the game.

Life is like Jenga: built on experience, shaped by change.

Milestone Achieved: Celebrating Our First 1,000 Visitors!

It has been a constant effort to attract readers to my website organically. I have been using Blogger for the past two and a half months and am just beginning to learn about how to use SEO on Blogger.

My goal was to reach at least 1,000 views within three months. Given my small circle of friends, I had little hope of achieving it. However, I’m excited to share that I finally hit 1,000 views last night at midnight!

My Journey So Far

My first post was published on March 8, 2025, and it was about my favorite game: Sudoku. Since then, I have published 15 posts on various topics. I’m thrilled to have reached this milestone, especially on days when my site received up to 100 views!

This achievement has motivated me to create and share even more content for my dear readers.

Upcoming Content Ideas

In the next three months, I have some exciting new ideas that I can’t wait to share:

1. A new series on the history of puzzles and arcade games.
   
   I plan to research and write about the history of puzzles and arcade games. As someone who has enjoyed playing and solving puzzles for a long time, I’m eager to explore their cultural significance and evolution.
   
   
2. Publishing my poetry and haiku
   
   I write Haiku, a form of short poetry that conveys deep meaning, often using metaphors related to nature and animals. I intend to publish my Haiku as a digital collection on my blog, and if they resonate well, I may compile them into a book in the future.
   
   
3. Participating in IndieWeb blog chains, carnival and online challenges
   
   I’m looking forward to engaging with the blogging community through various challenges and collaborations.

Looking Ahead

My next milestone is to reach 2,000 views and maintain a consistent daily readership of 50 or more.

Join the Journey!

I would love to hear from you! What topics would you like to see covered in my upcoming posts? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below. Your feedback and support mean the world to me as I continue this journey. Thank you for being a part of my blogging adventure!

AI and me

As you know, I have been upskilling myself through an intense four-week course at GrowthX. I am learning growth strategies to scale a company and assist a startup with its growth. 

[For those who are new to my blog, here is the context: I am currently participating in an intensive four-week course at GrowthX, where I am focused on developing growth strategies to help scale companies and support startups in their growth journey. This program is designed to equip me with the skills and knowledge necessary to drive business expansion and foster innovation in emerging ventures.]

Two Saturdays ago, I submitted my onboarding assignment and received peer-reviewed feedback from a team member. He expressed that he felt the assignment was written by AI. He claimed that he ran it over an AI tester, and it showed 80% AI written. The comment left me feeling disheartened.  

My inner voice at that moment: Why did he even use AI in the first place to evaluate my assignment? I don’t understand how an AI tester can actually determine if a piece of writing is authored by AI or by a human. I often use en dashes and em dashes in my writing, and even when I used to edit manuscripts, because they are created to be used at necessity.

I had used an AI tool to fix grammar and make my points more concise. The core idea is mine, and I don’t think that using AI as a tool to improve your existing write-up or compression is a mistake.

Since this tool is available and free to use, I believe it’s not a bad or wrong thing to utilize it. In fact, it would be a missed opportunity not to take advantage of such resources.

As a writer who has been consistently honing my craft for the past three to four years, I have witnessed the evolution of technology in the writing space. For instance, Grammarly, which initially lacked AI capabilities, sparked fears among editors about job security. However, it became clear that editors were still essential for structuring thoughts and providing nuanced insights.

Many believed that Grammarly would replace editors, but it never did. Instead, it served as a tool that helped writers produce drafts with fewer spelling and grammatical errors. It remains just that a tool.

Today, we have AI that claims to generate original content based on vast amounts of data available on the web. AI has become an integral part of nearly every application; almost everyone in the digital world uses it, or their applications are powered by AI, or at the very least, their data contributes to AI systems.

I was working as a development editor during the rise of the AI revolution, particularly with tools like ChatGPT becoming commonplace. The fear was real, seeing and experiencing its capabilities. It has surprised me and amazed me with the speed at which it can produce something, even if its mediocre piece. Its revolutionary and its already there.

This shift has transformed the landscape of writing and editing, making it essential for writers and editors alike to adapt and embrace these advancements.

I strongly am AI positive, and it should be used by writers, editors and other content producers to enhance the content game. 

I still use AI to compose my thought and perform a first-hand analysis. It has though me so much, about structuring, priming with hooks and even bring some first principal thoughts on writing. 

My process of writing is quite simple; I open either my blogger post editor or a notepad on my laptop and start to write. If the write up requires some sort of research, I google them, at times I use ChatGPT to find references on topics.

Once the idea is formed, I jot down my thoughts and make a clear structure on the editor. At times I even add links and references. Not all posts are completed quickly. Some take time. I have about 5 to 6 draft write ups currently on my Post tabs, which are incomplete.

Some topics remain so close like this one which I try to complete ideation, research, writing my draft, fixing errors, syntax and structure, and finalise the draft in 30 mins. You may read my other blog [How I write in 30 mins?] to know more.

This process of writing varies based on the topics and requirements. 

It’s clear that embracing AI has not only enhanced my craft but also opened up new avenues for creativity and expression. 

While some may fear that technology could overshadow the human touch, I believe that when used thoughtfully, AI can serve as a powerful tool that complements our unique voices rather than replaces them. By integrating these advancements into my writing process, I’ve been able to streamline my workflow, refine my ideas, and ultimately produce content that resonates with my audience. 

As we continue to navigate this technological revolution, I believe that the heart of writing is in our ability to connect, inspire, and share our stories—something that no machine can replicate. 

Understanding ceasefire: a path to peace

In the midst of conflict, a ceasefire can serve as a beacon of hope, offering a chance for healing and resolution.

As the sounds of gunfire fade, the possibility of dialogue emerges, allowing warring factions to pause their hostilities and reconsider their paths to peace.

In a world often overshadowed by violence, ceasefires remind us that even in the darkest times, there is an opportunity for understanding, compassion, and a collective effort toward a brighter future.

So, what exactly means a ceasefire?

Ceasefire is a military order to cease (come to an end) firing. 

It's generally described when a military temporarily stops the war, and both the sides mutually agree to stop their agressive actions.

It is an agreement between conflicting parties to stop hostilities, often as a precursor to negotiations or peace talks. 

Sometimes the agreement can be permanent as well, depending on the circumstances and the willingness of the parties involved to reach a resolution. 

Why are ceasefires initiated?

The conflicting parties come to an agreement to:

a) Stabilize environment for humanitarian aid: 

During armed conflicts, access to affected areas is often severely restricted. It becomes extremely difficult for the humanitarian organizations/team to deliver food, medical supplies, and other essential services to the effected zones. 

A ceasefire allows these organizations and teams to operate without the immediate threat of violence, enabling them to reach those in need. This can help alleviate suffering, prevent famine, and address health crises that arise during conflicts.

b) Facilitates safe evacuation of civilians:

Armed conflicts often put civilians at great risk, leading to casualties and displacement. A ceasefire can establish safe corridors or designated times for civilians to evacuate conflict zones. 

This not only protects lives but also allows people to seek refuge in safer areas, reducing the overall humanitarian impact of the conflict. It can also help prevent situations where civilians are caught in crossfire or used as human shields.

c) Opens opportunities for dialogue: 

Ceasefires can create a pause in war/conflict that allows conflicting parties to engage in dialogue and negotiations. 

This acts a crucial step for addressing the root causes of the conflict and finding a sustainable resolution. With a temporary halt in fighting, both sides may be more willing to come to the negotiating table, discuss their grievances, and explore potential compromises. This dialogue can lead to peace agreements, reconciliation efforts, and long-term stability.

In a way to peace, ceasefires play a vital role in mitigating the impacts of war, facilitating humanitarian aid, protecting civilians, and fostering dialogue for lasting peace.

Can a banner design spark clarity?

 

This was my LinkedIn banner:

And I decided to change it.

Give it a better design and value of what I represent and what I really am.

This is my LinkedIn Banner now:

I'm happy with how the banner redesign turned out—and the copy feels much sharper now.

Back story

Let's analyse my old LinkedIn banner!

I designed and created my old banner on Canva, and it represented who I am, who I used to be, or perhaps the right way to put it across: Who I believed I used to be!

Looking back at our own work, we were proud of once, can be embarrassing at times. 

It's about three years before I uploaded the old banner and started to use it. The though process behind the creation was to keep it simple, minimal and add a CTA tagline.

I wrote a tagline by myself that quite represented me "Let's think and create better". I used to have a sense of minimalist thinker vibes in my past, which would have inspired me to design something like that. Though the tagline says "Create Better" I doubt if I had created a worthy design to shout the words.

However, I realize now that I didn't put much thought into my banner (copy and the design). While it was clean and had a bold message, there are several shortcomings in my old design:

1. It didn't truly represent me. I'm not a minimalist; rather a maximalist who love colorful visual and bold textures.
2. The banner failed to convey what I do, who I am, or who I help. The message lacked context and was somewhat ambiguous. Although the quote was written by me, I doubt most people would have understood it.
3. Upon critical reflection, the banner felt blank and added a dull mood to my profile. Since the banner is the first thing anyone sees when visiting my profile, it’s important that it makes a strong impression.
4. I dont even remember why kept a plant painted in watercolor at that left corner. Maybe I would have felt cool at that point of time. It's quite in appropriate now and is not professional.

Okay, so let's be honest here, I never bothered to change it for a long time. I would reframe it as I was too lazy to change it.

What changed suddenly?

Recently, I embarked on a journey to build my personal brand. One of the biggest shortcomings that hindered engagement with my content was that people struggled to understand who I am and what I do.

It was hard for readers to make out why they should follow me. I provided less value to them. 

What is going to change?

Everything about my content is about to change. I want to create content that is rich in context, clear in its messaging, driven by a strong vision, valuable to my audience, ambitious in its goals, and impactful in its delivery.

What are the initial steps?

I found that without a clear profile/portfolio it is always hard to build a personal brand. This mad

Step 1: Building a profile with clarity and vision.

Step 2: Communicate the vision and value proposition

Step 3: Understand the reader and create content that add value.

Step 4: Create a better first impression.

Step 5: Attract the right audience.

Step 6: Define who you are in real, not reel.

To establish this perspective, I decided to change my LinkedIn banner as a first step.

Understanding the deeper meaning

I clearly defined what I wanted to communicate and outlined exactly what should and shouldn’t go on my banner. That clarity made the redesign process smooth and intentional.

I was clear from the start that I wanted my banner to include either a strong CTA or a clear action statement. I chose the latter to describe what I do.

After several iterations, I landed on:
“I turn rough ideas into resonant writing.”

What I love most about this line is the phrase “resonant writing.” I’d been searching for the right word—something that carries depth, intention, and emotional weight. Resonance felt perfect. It reflects how I aim to meet the needs of the reader, the brand, and myself: finding that sweet spot where clarity, meaning, and intent align.

Creating content with intention is far more challenging and rewarding,than writing something basic. Even though a LinkedIn banner is a small visual element, it’s the first thing people notice when they land on your profile. I wanted mine to reflect who I am and what I stand for.

The design was built on Canva. I’m not a graphic illustrator, so I made use of a ready-made illustration that spoke to me. I chose it deliberately as it reflects my persona: thoughtful, hands-on, and grounded. I still rely on pen and paper for most of my ideation and note-taking, and I wanted that analogue essence to show through.

The background is a soft gradient of blue: a deeply personal color for me. But there’s also a deeper layer to it. In Edward de Bono’s Six Thinking Hats framework, the Blue Hat symbolizes process control, reflection, and structured thinking, all qualities I try to bring into my work and writing.

Every element in the banner, from color to copy, is intentional. Nothing random. Everything chosen to echo how I think, work, and write.

Conclusion: A Small Banner, A Big Shift

This banner redesign may seem like a small update, but for me, it marks a larger transformation. It represents the clarity I now have about who I am, what I do, and how I want to show up in the world. It’s not just about better design or sharper copy—it’s about alignment. Between intention and action. Between who I am and how I’m seen.

The process reminded me that growth isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it’s quiet and deliberate, like changing your banner after three years because you finally know what you want to say. And more importantly, who you’re saying it to.

Constant rejections

- a philosophical poetry from bottom of my heart

Getting rejected constantly?

Yes.

Why?

“Not a good fit.” So what now?

Be the fit—or find what fits you.
It's okay to feel what you feel -
acknowledge it, and
then set new goals, again.

Will that stop rejections?

Not all.
But it will cast aside something worse:
your negative thoughts,
your negative emotions.

What will stop rejections, then?

Acceptance.
But you can build something better:
your positive attitude,
your positive actions.

What change will that make?

Embracing yourself!

What's that?

You build a habit:
not rejecting yourself.

How I write a blog in 30 minutes?

 I think 30 mins as a long enough time, to write something. Consider 30mins in seconds.

1 min = 60 sec

30 min = (30 x 60) sec = 1800 sec

1800 sec is a long time. Wondering how?

I assume I can write at least one character per second. That means I can write around 1,800 characters in 30 minutes. On average, I use about six characters per word—that adds up to roughly 300 words in 30 minutes.

With practice, this speed can increase. But for now, 300 words is a good enough count to share an idea or a thought.

Basically, I begin by setting a timer. I use the Clock app on my laptop and set it to 30 minutes. Once the timer starts, I begin writing.

Beforehand, I usually have a rough idea of what I want to write about. This makes thinking and planning easier once the timer is running.

I follow a top-down approach. I begin with the topic header—that is, the title.

The title helps me anchor my thoughts. I try to focus on the nuances and intricacies of the theme and communicate the idea clearly.

I start writing right away. I don’t worry too much about typos or sentence structure. What matters most is not interrupting the flow of thought.

I let myself write continuously, pausing only to think more deeply about the topic. Of course, I occasionally glance at the time left.

Once the initial draft on the topic is done, I do a basic grammar check using Grammarly or AI tools. I also analyze my content using GPT-4 to see if there's any inconsistency or if a section needs improvement.

The idea behind writing for 30 minutes straight is:

• To stay committed
• To develop focus
• To challenge myself to write consistently

If I get stuck somewhere, I either browse internet to other blogs or forums to see what others think of the topic.

It’s not about writing perfectly—it's about showing up, exploring ideas, and building a habit of reflection.

Once I’m satisfied with the write-up, I run a content analysis using GPT-4.0. This helps me identify pain points, uncover any gaps, and gain insights on how I can improve next time. It’s a simple step, but it makes a big difference in refining my style and becoming a more thoughtful writer over time.

This simple 30-minute routine has helped me become more disciplined and self-aware as a writer. Over time, it’s not just the words that improve—but also the way I think and express myself.

Try it out—set a timer, pick a topic, and just write. You might surprise yourself.

Why I want to write for big brands?

I've always loved communicating with people—sharing knowledge, exchanging insights, asking questions, and listening closely. My curiosity has been a lifelong companion, constantly pushing me to question things and seek solutions. That’s my greatest passion: solving problems that spark my interest.

But my mind often races with ideas, and I tend to forget things. That’s when I turned to writing—not just as a tool to remember, but as a way to organize my thoughts, reflect on them, and connect with others.

Over time, I’ve come to see writing as a superpower.

It's one of the greatest abilities humans possess—something no other species has mastered. While many living beings communicate, humans alone can write. That makes it a mega-power—a tool that can inspire, explain, guide, and transform.

As a great man once said, "With great power comes great responsibility."
That quote lives in me.

I want to be a responsible writer. One who uses words to help, not just to fill space.
I want to:

• Help people find the brands that resonate with them

• Help brands build trust and convert users into loyal customers

• Create communication that feels human, clear, and honest

When that happens, both sides win—users feel seen, and brands grow with integrity. Great writing can bring harmony to this relationship. It builds a bridge of understanding and respect.

That’s why I want to write for big brands.
Not because they're popular, but because they hold the potential to influence at scale. I admire the time, energy, and resources that large brands invest in understanding their users. And I want to help them stay user-focused and values-driven—through strong, impactful writing.

Because words are sharper than a knife.
They can break or build a world.
And I choose to build a world—a community—through mine.

Renewal - IndieWeb Carnival

This is my first entry for the IndieWeb Carnival, and I realize it’s quite late to be writing for the month of April. However, the theme of "Renewal" has sparked some thoughts that I feel compelled to share. Thanks to Jamie for bringing up a great theme for April.

As we transition into May, I believe it’s not too late for my contribution. I’ve come to appreciate that every piece of writing carries its own significance and offers a fresh perspective, embodying the essence of "RE-NEW-AL[L]."

April began for me with a lighthearted prank on my wife in celebration of April Fool's Day. It was a playful moment that set the tone for the month. Little did I know, I would soon find myself on the receiving end of a prank from my maternal uncle, Sumesh, a forest officer who never misses an opportunity to prank me—even in the middle of a dense jungle. His creativity knows no bounds, and each year, I find myself both amused and exasperated by his antics.

However, April also brought with it a more serious challenge. For the first time, I faced a real cyber-attack when my WhatsApp account was hacked. A small mistake on my part led to a significant disaster. I had to connect with the WhatsApp support team and report the incident to the local cyber police. My wife helped me share the situation with our friends and family to prevent the hacker from reaching out to them.

Although I was able to recover my WhatsApp account within an hour, the experience was both alarming and eye-opening, reminding me of the vulnerabilities we all face in our increasingly digital lives. This incident served as a stark contrast to the lightheartedness of the pranks, highlighting the importance of vigilance and security in our online interactions.

April was also the month when my father-in-law faced a serious health crisis, as he was admitted to the hospital due to a severe infection. Diagnosed with cellulitis, he required immediate surgery. It was an incredibly difficult time for our family, as we rallied together in the hospital to support him and ensure his well-being during this unfortunate ordeal.

This coincided with the start of my GrowthX classes, and I unfortunately missed my first week's assignment. It was a challenging time, filled with both personal and familial concerns.

This interplay of pranks and serious challenges serves as a reminder of the importance of renewal in our relationships and our approach to technology. Just as the seasons change, so too do our interactions with those we care about and the digital tools we use. Each joke and moment of laughter is an opportunity to refresh our connections and bring a little joy into our lives, while each challenge presents a chance for growth and learning.

As I reflect on the theme of renewal, I realize that it extends beyond just playful moments. It encompasses the idea of growth and transformation in various aspects of life. Whether it’s nurturing relationships, pursuing new interests, or simply embracing change, renewal is a vital part of our journey.

As we step into May, let us wholeheartedly embrace the opportunities and challenges that await us, cherishing the growth and transformation that each new experience brings!

GrowthX Journey - Day 1

Today, I officially begin the Advanced Growth Strategy program at GrowthX.

Our Day 1 was all about deep dive into Acquisitions.

After years of working across content, digital production, and operations, I’ve come to realize one thing—growth doesn’t happen by accident. It’s intentional, measurable, and built through a structured approach to experimentation, user understanding, and problem-solving.

That’s exactly what brought me here.

I joined this program to:

• Build a deep, first-principles understanding of growth

• Think like a product and growth leader

• Learn how to diagnose growth problems and run experiments that drive real outcomes

• Surround myself with builders, strategists, and thinkers

I’m excited to apply my experience in content and process design through a growth lens—and build the mindset, skills, and network to move into a Growth Lead role.

More to come as I learn, build, and share.

Let’s go. 🚀

$1 is too much for me.

I’m trying to understand the big difference in money values, especially since the dollar is getting close to ₹100. When I see bloggers asking for donations of just $1, it surprises me.

For many people in the U.S., that might not seem like much, but for me, it’s a significant amount. This really shows how different countries view money and how it can be hard for people in places with lower incomes.

It makes me think about how exchange rates affect our ideas of support and generosity around the world.

...

By the way, I was trying to figure out how to type the "₹" symbol, which is the currency symbol for India. 

After a quick Google search, I discovered that pressing Ctrl + Shift + 4 gives me the "₹" instead of the "$" symbol.

I want a break!

It's been six years since I finished college and started working.

I am tired and want a break.

...

Throughout these six years, there hasn't been one thing that I did which I loved.

I just wanted to complete the tasks and move on.

My colleagues assume that I perform well because I am passionate and talented in my work.

My answer to them is that NO. I am neither passionate nor talented in it; it's just that I have the attitude to somehow find a solution and close the task.

But this attitude breaks my mood. It breaks my soul and tires me mentally.

For six years, I have been trying to restart my career; just that I am not able to find something that drives me.

There are huge trade-offs to this. It's my family.

My profession has affected my family a lot, especially my parents and my wife.

The world is so mean that they assume a guy with experience gets paid better. But in reality, they may be earning less than what the company pays their intern.

I faced this in one of the organizations I worked for in my past.

...

I want a break to rediscover my joy. I want a break to restart my career. I want a break to overcome my salary barrier. I want a break to explore new hobbies. I want a break to build a fulfilling life. I want a break to lay a stronger foundation for myself. I want a break to invest in my personal growth.

I want a break to break my fear.

...

It's not just a professional break I need; it's a mental reset. I find myself facing a block that stifles my creativity and limits my thoughts to work alone. Some might label it as stress, while others may call it laziness.

In truth, my mind feels like it's rusting, weighed down by the constant grind. I yearn for the space to think freely, to explore ideas beyond the confines of my job, and to reignite my passion for life. This break is essential for rejuvenating my mind and rediscovering the joy and inspiration that have been overshadowed by routine.

Meaningful things in life

Some days, I build.

Little systems, quiet routines, tiny ideas that take shape with time.

Some days, I fix.

A broken process, a rough plan, or just my own scattered thoughts.

And some days, I simply create.

Not for anyone else, not for perfection—just for the joy of it.

I guess this is who I am.

A builder. A fixer. A quiet creator.

...

I live to eat.

Not just to fill the stomach, but to fill the heart.

I eat good food—and always, with love.

I read. I write. I pause to understand the little things around me.

A word, a moment, a feeling.

Most of my thoughts orbit around the life I’m building—

my family, my dreams, the food I cook, the work I hope to do.

It’s a quiet world, but it’s mine.

And I’m slowly learning to shape it with care.

...

I love to create.

On paper, with a pen and a pause.

On the screen, with clicks and quiet focus.

And sometimes, just in my head—

shaping thoughts no one sees but me.

Creation feels like home.

No rules, no rush—just me, and the joy of making something from nothing.

Building solutions for tomorrow

I've always had a passion for building things, being creative, and seeing results in real time—whether it's a hobby or part of my professional life.

Today, I’m super excited to share something new and personal with you all! I’m kicking off a fun journey to create apps and webpages that not only help me but also assist others in tackling their everyday challenges. This is part of my personal hobby projects, along with my love for blog writing.

But it’s more than just a hobby; it’s also a stepping stone toward my bigger long-term goal of working on projects that focus on building solutions, apps, tools, and webpages. I can’t wait to dive in, explore new ideas, and see where this adventure takes me!

So, grab a cup of coffee, get comfy, and let’s chat about what this adventure looks like!

Why Apps and Webpages?

You know how technology is everywhere these days? 

It’s amazing how a simple app or website can change lives. Whether it’s a tool to help you manage your tasks, track your health, or connect with others, the right tech can make a world of difference. 

I’ve always been fascinated by the idea of using technology to create solutions, and now I’m ready to dive in and be part of that process. I love building things, and with the latest advancements in AI, I can do it more easily than ever.

Once I draft my ideas and write some basic code, define functions, and design the look and feel of the app, I can rely on a simple AI to act as my copilot. All I need is to communicate effectively in English to provide the right prompts.

I plan to leverage my knowledge of HTML, CSS, and JavaScript, along with the assistance of AI tools, to bring my app and webpage ideas to life. I’m excited about the possibilities that lie ahead!

Finding the Problems

Before I jump into building anything, I want to make sure I’m addressing real issues that people face. 

I plan to talk to friends, family, and my community to hear their stories and understand their struggles. 

What are the little annoyances in their daily lives? 

What would make things easier for them? 

By listening closely, I hope to find some inspiration for my projects.

Setting Some Goals

To keep myself on track, I’m going to set some clear goals. Here’s what I’m thinking:

• Create a Minimum Viable Product (MVP): I want to build a simple version of my first app or webpage that tackles a specific problem. This will help me test my ideas and get feedback.
• Engage with Users: Building a community around my projects is important to me. I want to hear from users, understand their needs, and refine my solutions based on their input.
• Iterate and Improve: I know that the first version of anything isn’t perfect. I’ll be continuously improving my apps and webpages based on user feedback. There’s always room for growth!
• Share My Journey: I plan to document my progress right here on this blog. I want to share my experiences, challenges, and successes with you. 

Who knows? Maybe it’ll inspire someone else to start their own journey!

What’s Next?

I’m aware that this journey won’t always be smooth sailing. There will be challenges, moments of doubt, and obstacles to overcome. But you know what? I’m ready to face them head-on. The chance to create something meaningful that can help others is a huge motivator for me.

To keep my ideas organized and focused, I’ve started a list of potential products that I’ve noted in my journal. This list is more than just a collection of ideas; it’s a reflection of my passion for problem-solving and my desire to make a positive impact. 

Each entry represents a unique challenge I’ve identified, along with a potential solution that I believe could benefit others.

Each of these ideas stems from real conversations and observations I’ve had with friends, family, and my community. They reflect the challenges people face daily and the solutions I believe could make a difference. But its not the end of the list.

As I continue to refine these concepts, I’ll be seeking feedback and insights from potential users. Their input will be invaluable in shaping the my products and ensuring they truly meet the needs of those they’re designed to help.

I’m excited about the journey ahead and the opportunity to turn these ideas into reality. 

With determination, creativity, and the support of AI tools, I’m ready to tackle the challenges that come my way and create something meaningful for others. Stay tuned as I share more about my progress and the lessons I learn along the way!

From Panasonic to Pixels: My Digital Awakening

I received my first smartphone when I was 18 and had just joined college to pursue my BTech in Mechanical Engineering back in 2015. My first phone was made by Panasonic.

The reason I got the phone wasn’t because my friends had one; it was actually a requirement from our class coordinator. We needed to be active on WhatsApp to stay updated with notifications and group discussions.

This wasn’t an uncommon situation, as many of my friends were also getting their first phones around the same time. 

It’s interesting to think about how smartphones have become such an essential part of our lives, especially during significant transitions like starting college. 

Having that phone helped me stay connected with my classmates and manage my academic responsibilities more effectively. Looking back, I can see how that experience shaped my social interactions and learning journey. 

Do I have any memorable experiences or challenges from that time related to my first smartphone? Absolutely!

I installed WhatsApp for the first time and connected with my friends. 

I also installed Instagram for the first time and followed celebrities, artists, and many fellow college mates. 

I got my first SIM card and a personal number. 

Although I was already on Facebook, I installed the Facebook app on my phone and used it. (That's when Jio first launched in India, but I wasn't sure about their schemes, so I didn't buy a Jio SIM card.) 

I told my parents about WhatsApp since it was the first smartphone in my small family. 

I was proud to own my smartphone. 

Later, I even recommended that my dad buy a smartphone, as he loved using it. It was hard for my parents to understand how to use it at first, but slowly they learned how touch screens work, how to call someone, how to answer a call, how to mute a call, and even how to use WhatsApp. 

Many assume that using WhatsApp is easy, but it's not. One has to be very careful while using it, especially when deleting messages, as there is no way to undo that action. Deleting messages on WhatsApp has been a nightmare for many: "Delete for me" — the UI's worst decision to have that option for the sender as well. 

It was a whole new world, and the revelation it brought was immense, introducing a completely new lifestyle. This technology was a milestone for millennials, as smartphones became more accessible and affordable.

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I do own a smartphone, but these days I just use it for payments and watching movies.

I rarely catchup on WhatsApp.

I use less of Instagram.

I am active on Blogger and LinkedIn, but I access both on my laptop.

So what do I do on my "PHONE"?

In 2022 when I started working in publishing industry I actually wanted to switch to using the old phone set. 

I had Nokia in my mind.

I love this type of clickable phone; they have excellent FM capabilities. There are newer versions of these phones that support dual SIM and 5G connectivity.

The experience of using these phones is so enjoyable that modern smartphones still can't quite match it.

However, this doesn't mean that smartphones provide a bad experience. They offer a different feel and enhance the overall functionality of a phone.

The journey of communication, from dial phones to landlines, then to wireless landlines, followed by mobile phones, and now to smartphones, is quite fascinating.

Smartphones have become an indispensable part of our lives. They are so integral that the traditional call functionality has evolved into video calls, allowing for more face-to-face communication.

Smartphones are not just for calls and messages; they can also serve as mini-computers. With internet access, they can perform most of the functions of a computer.

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Core Functionality:

1. Calling 
2. Receiving calls
3. Sending messages
4. Receiving messages

What most do on a phone?

1. Making calls: Reach out to friends or family to invite them to an event, congratulate them on an achievement, celebrate a special occasion, share a moment of sadness, or simply have a chat.
2. Receiving calls: Answer calls from loved ones, customer service representatives, or even unexpected calls from telemarketers.
3. Text notifications: Stay informed with messages about bank transactions, such as debits and credits, pending bill payments, disaster alerts, or promotional offers from nearby malls, theaters, and events. Don’t forget the all-important OTP (One-Time Password) for secure transactions.
4. Sending messages: Use quick replies like "I'll call you later" or "I'm busy" to gracefully divert calls when you can’t talk.
5. Calculator use: Utilize the calculator for quick calculations, whether for budgeting, shopping, or any other numerical needs.
6. Social media and apps: Engage with social media platforms and other applications to stay connected, share experiences, and access a variety of services.
7. Cashless payments
8. Googling questions and ideas
9. Listening to music
10. Capturing photographs and videos
11. Sharing moments in life
12. Authentication and OTPs
13. Fidgeting when bored

Basically, smartphones have become an essential part of our lives; they function like a second brain. With AI advancements like Gemini and ChatGPT, they are more personalized than ever.

I often wonder if I’m using my phone to its full potential, as I don’t rely on it much without specific use cases. I find myself using my laptop more, getting deeply involved in my work, studies, blogging, and reading online articles.

Yet, I observe those around me using their smartphones as if they were extensions of their minds. It seems that everything is influenced by mobile phones, with people copying each other and trying to keep up with trends. I see individuals proudly showcasing their expensive phones, which often serve the same basic functions as any other device.

This leads me to ponder: if I’m not fully utilizing the features of my low-budget smartphone, what’s the point of spending money on a pricier model that offers the same capabilities?

Is it that I genuinely have a NEED for a new phone?

Will a more expensive phone bring me greater HAPPINESS?

Will it help me make more FRIENDS?

Will it lead to a better JOB?

Will my new phone cook better FOOD for me?

I question whether the smartphone I use today is truly a necessity or if it’s something that has been ingrained in my mind as essential. Perhaps it’s just another psychological trick to sell more phones.